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Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Sex?

There is a growing urgency among sex researchers to bridge the overwhelming gap between two dominant approaches to understanding sexuality – the positivist, empirical approach and the social constructionist approach (Bancroft, 2000). While on the one hand, it is undeniable that such fundamental biological processes as genetics, hormones, and biological development play important roles in the expression of sexuality at every level, it is also undeniable, on the other hand, that a culture's discourse around sexuality also influences sexual expression in ways that are not necessarily amenable to quantifiable, empirical study. Although it is generally acknowledged that there is some kind of interaction between individual biology and culture, these two strains of research have not yet found a shared language which mutually satisfies the two camps, and no methodologically useful way of modeling this interaction has been widely accepted among sex researchers. If we hope to understand sexuality in all its complexity, we must account for both sides of the story. The positivists must acknowledge as legitimate and incorporate into their research the important cultural factors that influence sexuality; in parallel, the social constructionists must acknowledge that basic genetic and biological processes affect cultural expressions of gender and sex.

Sex research needs simplified models of sexuality that are valuable insofar as they help create positive change (Bancroft, 2000). Dynamical systems theory may be a possible solution. Already utilized in fields as diverse as developmental psychology (cf. Thelen and Smith, 1994), artificial intelligence and philosophy of mind (Clark, 1998), meteorology (Lorenz 1963), anthropology (Bateson, 1980), and curriculum development (Doll, 1993), dynamical systems theory (DST) differs from both the traditional medical approach and the critical social constructionist approach in its theoretical assumptions and, more significantly, in its methodological approach to studying its subject. Dynamical systems theory may provide a practical, coherent way to model sexual development, identity, and culture in a way that accounts for the complex interactions between individual biology and psychology with social forces, accounting for both individual variability as well as social-level characteristics
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Monday, February 15, 2010

Valentine Lingerie

We all know that Valentine's Day is regarded as the most popular time to buy lingerie for a special evening but what works best for a getaway? Let me help you take the guesswork out of the stress of shopping for lingerie for yourself or that special someone.

One must have for that special fun filled night is a lace bra and panty set. These are great for under a dress for that surprise as the dress hits the floor in the room after dinner. There is nothing sexier than knowing the whole time that a surprise lurks for him later but he can't see it. Add a finishing touch by hoping over to www.holidash.com and seeing what scents turn men on the most.

Another option you have is a bustier set without garters. If you break a garter on on a getaway you are out of luck on your outfit and might not have time to replace it. Get a great bustier without garters from many online retailers. Make sure you pick a smooth material to be worn under your regular clothes or a lacier one if being worn later. You can always ad a pair of stockings to this to turn the heat up! If you do break the clasp you can try cutting all the straps off and hope you have stay-up stockings.

You could do the unthinkable and buy one of those very girlie and youthful cotton shorts and tank sets. These work well for travel as they are small and can be folded in the suit case and no need to worry about wrinkling.

Go completely over the edge? Buy some edible undies for him and her! They pack light, no refrigeration needed and a good time can be had by all, as long as no one has a food allergy. Just think of the fact that you won't have to throw anything in laundry when you get home.

Plus size ladies can opt for a sexy chemise with a robe combination if she is afraid to show some skin. Nothing more sensual than seeing the assets that you have upfront with a push up style anything! Take care that this item is rolled in the suitcase and not folded.